Affirmation

     Affirmation    

by Donald Hall

To grow old is to lose everything. 

Aging, everybody knows it. 

Even when we are young, 

we glimpse it sometimes, and nod our heads 

when a grandfather dies.

Then we row for years on the midsummer 

pond, ignorant and content. But a marriage,

that began without harm, scatters 

into debris on the shore, 

and a friend from school drops 

cold on a rocky strand.

If a new love carries us 

past middle age, our wife will die 

at her strongest and most beautiful. 

New women come and go. All go. 

The pretty lover who announces 

that she is temporary

is temporary. The bold woman,

middle-aged against our old age,

sinks under an anxiety she cannot withstand. 

Another friend of decades estranges himself 

in words that pollute thirty years. 

Let us stifle under mud at the pond's edge 

and affirm that it is fitting

and delicious to lose everything.

I liked reading this poem because of its insight into life. Everything passes by, no matter how much you would like to keep it. It is a poem that gives you insight to life, and it is advice you should take to the heart. 

"It is difficult to get the news from poetry, yet men die miserably every day for lack of what is found there." ~~William Carlos Williams

William carlos Williams conveys a powerful message within this simple statement. Poetry is open to everybody, however few take advantage of what it has to offer. Williams views ignorance of poetry as a death; one should always take the opportunity to explore what is offered to you. Poetry offers creativity, and a different view on beauty and simple things often overlooked by others. By overlooking poetry, one metaphorically dies, as Williams states.